Continuing with my commentaries on Love in this mushy weather.....today I want to talk about the struggles in the life of Lovers.
Never have I understood in more than three decades of my existence, the sadist pleasure that the society and its guardians gain from obstructing the life of lovers!
The poor lovers are already under so much of stress from their own uncertain mood-swings, loving their totally hormone-inflicted beloveds and also managing to carry on their daily routine as if nothing is amiss; that the society insists on dictating its superfluous rules to these harassed souls.
The society and the so called rule-makers do not refrain from erecting obstructions in their journey of love.
I feel that the experience of a love relation is the greatest and the most fool-proof way to self-discovery. A person comes to know of his/her limitations to give unconditionally, of receiving crap from his/her beloved and other totally unrelated but 'concerned' people and also the physical boundaries of burning the midnight oil to find time either for the beloved or the pending work!
I recommend falling in love and 'REAL LOVE' that is a passionate and an all-consuming abyss; to everyone. If one can manage it at least once in his/her lifetime then I feel that such a person is cut out to be a hermit as well!
I today humbly request the society to stop playing spoil-sport in the lives of lovers.
These people are cast in a unique mould with guts of steel to support the foundation of their souls. They have their own set of rules and propriety. Even God does not mess with them. As an example from the pre-historic era I can recall the case of Panchali who loved five men and whom Lord Krishna supported with all His might. In more recent times I can safely say that even God and the monarchy had to bow down to 34 years of endless love between Prince Charles and Camilla Parker Bowles!
Let LOVE set you FREE,
Let your Heart speak the language of LOVE.
There's no point being jealous really!
Never have I understood in more than three decades of my existence, the sadist pleasure that the society and its guardians gain from obstructing the life of lovers!
The poor lovers are already under so much of stress from their own uncertain mood-swings, loving their totally hormone-inflicted beloveds and also managing to carry on their daily routine as if nothing is amiss; that the society insists on dictating its superfluous rules to these harassed souls.
The society and the so called rule-makers do not refrain from erecting obstructions in their journey of love.
I feel that the experience of a love relation is the greatest and the most fool-proof way to self-discovery. A person comes to know of his/her limitations to give unconditionally, of receiving crap from his/her beloved and other totally unrelated but 'concerned' people and also the physical boundaries of burning the midnight oil to find time either for the beloved or the pending work!
I recommend falling in love and 'REAL LOVE' that is a passionate and an all-consuming abyss; to everyone. If one can manage it at least once in his/her lifetime then I feel that such a person is cut out to be a hermit as well!
I today humbly request the society to stop playing spoil-sport in the lives of lovers.
These people are cast in a unique mould with guts of steel to support the foundation of their souls. They have their own set of rules and propriety. Even God does not mess with them. As an example from the pre-historic era I can recall the case of Panchali who loved five men and whom Lord Krishna supported with all His might. In more recent times I can safely say that even God and the monarchy had to bow down to 34 years of endless love between Prince Charles and Camilla Parker Bowles!
Let LOVE set you FREE,
Let your Heart speak the language of LOVE.
There's no point being jealous really!
Love as a means to self-discovery is so true. We never learn so much as when we are in the grip of love and the beloved, though afterwards we may feel a sense of loss when the relationship ends. Still love itself is a kind of personal journey, isn't it? And you are right, Suditi, society has no right to interfere.
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